i would’ve killed mal, married nikolai and fucked the darkling but this bitch killed the darkling, married mal and didn’t even fuck nikolai,
how can one fuck up life choices on such deep level?
It is embarrassing. It puts Black girls in a bad light. Many people on Kpop forums have stated their disgust of this blog. It is problematic. I already sent an ask; it was not mean at all. She responded in a very puerile manner, and blocked me. Oh well, she will be alright though.
I know you, the reader(s) are thinking “Oh you are just so pressed by this blog.” NO. Check it out for yourself. I cannot be quiet on this anymore when it is wrong.
I find that a lot of young black girls that are fans of Kpop seek validation from these Kpop Idols and more locally Asian males.
They are so desperate that they cannot distinguish that it is just fanservice. It is quite disheartening. You must know your self and self worth. These people can’t validate you. You are 30,000+ miles away, are no where near fluent in those language, know hardly any of their customs and culture. They don’t give a damn about you.
Though they deny it; the writing is on the wall: This blog is fetishing Asian Men. Many posts have stated that they want an Asian boyfriend and only seek Asian boyfriends. You are going to kick yourself for passing up on these gorgeous guys of other races. If a guy likes you, he likes you regardless of race. It is very wrong to seek Asian guys because of the perception that Kpop/Jpop gives you. Not all Asian men are Kai, Gackt, and Jet Li.
The countless posts reek of low self esteem and desperation to the point of being Captain Save-A-Hoe for these problematic idols with the dreadful phrases,” I am black. It doesn’t offend me.” as if YOU are the spokesperson for Black people. Shut. The. Fuck. Up; Sit. The. Fuck. Down. I am sick of Oppalogists, but Black oppalogists make me want to
Kai was not staring at the girl on ASC because he liked her. It was because he was looking at the damn screen. Where else is he supposed to look? Chanyeol doesn’t like Black Women because he played “Chocolate Legs” by Eric Benet. He just like you probably doesn’t even know what they are saying. Idols don’t like all black girls because they say they like Beyonce, Rhianna, and Nicki Minaj. They like those women, not you.
You will support your favourite member if and when they come out and/or admit to be dating a person because it is their life and you have no control over it and not be a little shit and hate on them or their S/O or ask them to break up.
